My Bebe sleeps with me and hubby since day one as well. Hes never messed in our bed but has had accidents in the house. He gets my husband up at 3am every night to let him out to pee. When my hubby works nights sometimes, Bebe knows not to wake me in the middle of the night and sleeps all night long.....LOL He's got the hubby wrapped around his little paw!!!!!