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BellaDonna · 04-04-2010, 05:10 AM

I don't have any idea how old you are, most of us probably guess that your young because of your questions and lack of experience with dogs. By the time people are in their 30's they usually have some experience but your age isn't important to me.

Your statement on not being able to get info from the Dog Whisperer doesn't make sense to me. A dog is a dog first and foremost. Yes there are some things that differ from small breeds to large breeds but all in all they are a species and even though I have only Chihuahua's and Yorkies I have learned a ton from that show. You should be able to pick up many helpful nuggets in training there.

My point to you in my post was to be open and honest with yourself and your feelings and decide if a tiny puppy is the right thing for you at this point in your life. From what you said about getting married in a few months it may be that a dog isn't right for you right now. What happens to the dog when you go on a honeymoon? Once married will you still have the time and inclination to give time to the dog? These are just concerns and none of us can know what is in your heart but if you already are feeling stressed by this cute puppy, what are you going to be like when it is a matted ball of hair that needs medical attention or training?

You have another post going about running and running with DJ. My opinion on that is that as a runner you would probably be better off with a larger dog that could challenge you as a runner and keep up with you. A tiny puppy like DJ should not be asked to run a mile trying to keep up with you right now. Of course this is just my opinion but I assume you want opinions and suggestions or you wouldn't ask.

If you ever decide to re-home DJ there are other ways of being around dogs and learning all about them before you get another one. I use to volunteer at the Humane Society. I did lots of cleaning, walking, and even overnight visits. That way you help a homeless dog and also learn about all sorts of dogs and dog issues. I bet your humane society would be happy to let you come out and take a larger dog for a nice run.

Like I said before I want the best for DJ and the best thing for DJ is that you know and recognize what is the best thing for both of you.

04-04-2010, 05:10 AM	#79
BellaDonna YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Texas Posts: 594	I don't have any idea how old you are, most of us probably guess that your young because of your questions and lack of experience with dogs. By the time people are in their 30's they usually have some experience but your age isn't important to me. Your statement on not being able to get info from the Dog Whisperer doesn't make sense to me. A dog is a dog first and foremost. Yes there are some things that differ from small breeds to large breeds but all in all they are a species and even though I have only Chihuahua's and Yorkies I have learned a ton from that show. You should be able to pick up many helpful nuggets in training there. My point to you in my post was to be open and honest with yourself and your feelings and decide if a tiny puppy is the right thing for you at this point in your life. From what you said about getting married in a few months it may be that a dog isn't right for you right now. What happens to the dog when you go on a honeymoon? Once married will you still have the time and inclination to give time to the dog? These are just concerns and none of us can know what is in your heart but if you already are feeling stressed by this cute puppy, what are you going to be like when it is a matted ball of hair that needs medical attention or training? You have another post going about running and running with DJ. My opinion on that is that as a runner you would probably be better off with a larger dog that could challenge you as a runner and keep up with you. A tiny puppy like DJ should not be asked to run a mile trying to keep up with you right now. Of course this is just my opinion but I assume you want opinions and suggestions or you wouldn't ask. If you ever decide to re-home DJ there are other ways of being around dogs and learning all about them before you get another one. I use to volunteer at the Humane Society. I did lots of cleaning, walking, and even overnight visits. That way you help a homeless dog and also learn about all sorts of dogs and dog issues. I bet your humane society would be happy to let you come out and take a larger dog for a nice run. Like I said before I want the best for DJ and the best thing for DJ is that you know and recognize what is the best thing for both of you. __________________ Donna *Mom to 6 Chihuahuas 1 Yorkie* *and 5 Cats!* Ok...maybe I am a little twisted!