Well ya know, sometimes people can only take so much and then they can't take anymore.
I'm not saying that two wrongs make a right, but what's the saying? "Time about deserves fair play." The OP had more than her fair share of "rude" and "hurtful" comments thrown at her.
(Still scratching my head over how anything she said, regardless to if it was or wasn't called for could be interpreted as "racist," but boy there's an attention grabbing accusation if I ever heard one.)
I hope that the OP got the answers she needed before all the madness started...because heaven help anyone who actually remembers what her original question was at this point.