[DaniMarie]

And as a side note...

Whoever insinuated that I don't know what it feels like to lose a baby...........

You do not know me and do not know my life.......



So don't even go there.

This is online. What the hell did you have to pose questions off of? Hit a nerve? Yeah, maybe.

HUMAN people aside, let me add this about a cat::::

A few years ago I found a baby cat outside of my office who had been abandoned by his mother. I bottle fed him for months and he could never sleep until he cuddled up and sucked on my shirt. I would get home and we'd cuddle every night for two and a half years. He was the most precious thing ever.

A family member absentmindedly let him out one day. I also suspect having been abandoned so young(not having food), and by many of his actions he was mildly retarded so I knew he wasn't equipped with the skills to find his way home. I searched and searched and searched. Tears. Flyers. Asking neighbors who thought I was INSANE with pictures.


I never found him.

It's been five years and I still wonder if he's out there somewhere and if (and I pray to GOD) someone found him and he's okay.

I know what loss is like. Beyond what anyone on any online messageboard can comprehend (and much more that I'm not willing to share) by a few posts regarding my pretty Yorkie and her cute sweaters or whatever.

I'm sorry I ever joined this community.