oh no - I am so soooooo sorry ! I was there just 2 years ago and it's a devestating life changing thing to go thru
Deb - you have my deepest condolences and all my prayers to you and your family. I'm very sorry to hear this and also about your mom. I can't really imagine losing 2 huge parts of your life in such a short time.
hugs and prayers
Villette