[4doggiemama]

Originally Posted by kjc

They look so at ease together... he's such a handsome fellow! Lucky Little Tia!

Have your husband wear a T shirt for a few days and put it in the dog's bed or near it so he becomes used to his scent.

Have hubby stir his food with his bare hand... scenting again.

Hubby should never approach the dog, hold out a treat and allow the dog to come to him for the treat...

And lastly, have all scratch this dog from under his chin, I would avoid a hand over his head for petting until he becomes more relaxed with everyone. Be very patient, he will come around. (If he is fearful when this is done overhead)

Most important: Say "What a good Boy!" The "W" word gets their attention quickly and makes it more special than a plain 'Good Boy!'., and say this at least once daily, even if he didn't have a good day. Some dogs don't have a clue and have never heard these words... too sad! But it's a great self-esteem builder for him or any pup.

My oldest rescue took eight months before he bonded with me. I kind of gave up trying and just decided to accept him as he was: a non-bonding dog. So sad... until one day he kissed my cheek. I cried for quite a while.... now I can't get him to stop! JK!

Good Luck with him and wishing you all the best!

Excellent advice. I have found that putting an open hand over Chipper's head scares him. (He hates to have his head touched anyway. Might be because I have to always wash and comb his beard.) I also tell anyone coming into my house to squat down to pet my dogs. My senior girls were both abused. Squatting and an open hand seem to assure them that they aren't going to be hit. It has taken Cocoa years to allow my dh to pick her up. She'll actually go to him, now, and beg to be picked up. Patience does work. Good luck. ~Joanne~