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Originally Posted by violet voon  Last night, as I was watching tv show with my mum
All of a sudden, mum popped up this
"...what are you going to do if one day Sugar leaves you..."
I was all shocked, looked at her in the eyes...
"Mum, why did you ask that?"
I never want to imagine what would happen 15+ years later. I lost my cat when I was 16, either someone took her or she lost her way. I searched everywhere...no one saw her. I cried for many months, still cry over it until now. I know mum concerns about this, she knows I love Sugar... I believe she just wanted to 'remind' me that Sugar is not going to stay with me until my hair turns grey. But my heart felt so painful, I know everyone I love is not going to stay with me forever, but I don't want to be reminded, I'm already having a hard time imagining every possible bad things might happen, it didn't do any good to me, I always ended up having bad time... since then, I only look at the brighter side, but still...it's not easy 
What am I going to do?
I didn't answer mum |
I am the exact same way. I use to get physically ill (and sometimes still do) at the thought of losing my dad. I even made him promise me to take me with him when he goes. I was really young then and I understand now that he can't keep that promise. My dad snuck that same question in this weekend, but added, "Would you get another yorkie? You know you'll never find another one like Kaji."
That thought makes me cringe.