[BellaDonna]

Since this thread seems to be going on and on I want to add one more thing. I understand how Mary felt attacked or maybe belittled in her first thread and I do think some things were said that were a touch harsh, but with that said I joined this forum because when I looked it over I liked most of what I saw and came here in hopes of making some friends, exchanging information and learning from people with more/different information.
I didn't come here to try to "change" something that was set up by someone else and apparently has been working. Whoever originally started this forum and runs the forum has the authority to "change" it but not me nor should I as a newbie be able to come in and demand it.

If I don't like this forum enough I can make up my own forum and get others to join it. That way things can be done to my standard, but I think this thread is beating a dead horse. We don't have to come here and we don't need to read what others write.

Just ignore the people you don't like and enjoy the ones you do. Life is only as happy as you make it and I am for sure SICK of the "change" that has happened over the last year and don't need to continue it here.