Concerned Mommy,
I started brushing Chloe from day one. I kept doing it every single night. The face and front paws she is picky about, but I just keep on trying. Now about the bow..for the longest time I thought I was never going to be able to put a tie on her head. Then around 7 months and tried it again and she let me put it on. I was so excited. Prior to that I was putting those clips that you move forward and back to close...you know which ones? How old is your baby? Good luck!