The boyfriend came before the dog, but there had not been discussions about living together at that time, and he always acted like he liked the dog, that's why I was so floored. I don't think my sister ever thought he would have her choose. I personally think it was the wrong choice, but now I have to figure out a way to reconcile what happened, or I don't think I will be able to hang out with them anymore. I am having the hardest time getting past this. Luckily the kids and the dog will still be together. It feels good to be validated here because my family doesn't understand. They say they disagree with her, but it's her life and I can't tell her what to do. Everyone else has been able to move past it. |