[tigker86]

So I got a Yorkie out of the blue. She was given to me, and it did caught me off guard but I love my little Lexi. My boyfriend brought her home early February as my "valentine's present." Since i've trained her to "sit" "down," my boyfriend believes we're going to "share" her. Since it was my valentines present so i assumed she was to stay at my house unless she needs some house sitting if I'm away too long.

Anyhow he believes that Lexi would be "just fine" going to two different houses during the week or every other week. I want to keep her at one location but he's stubborn and doesn't see it that way.

She's happy and learning where to potty at my house plus she's really good at listening to me. Whenever she comes back home it's like I have to retrain her all over again.

What can I do? or what can I tell him if she's going to continue letting her living like this? or should I try to change his mind to stay at my house?

All she does at his house is sleep and cuddle, turn over the garbage and tear up the pee-pad, it's like there are no rules in his house and she rules the house.

I'm at my wits end! Maybe I should just not keep Lexi at my house anymore and tell him he can have full responsibility and leave me out of the picture. I just feel guilty if i abandoned her, we were bonding so well.