Here is a product that I really like for visiting other people's homes and especially for my leg lifter. They are a little expensive but they are so adorable on the dogs people just think they are clothes. Because I live in the west I do the denim with the red hankie in the back pocket. Everyone just things they are overalls for the dogs. For the pads that go in the panties I just use woman's light day pads and they work fine and are less $$$.
My visit is so much more enjoyable because I am not worried if there will or won't be an accident.
http://www.joybies.com/
Hope this helps.