[DvlshAngel985]

I'm so sorry you're boyfriend doesn't understand. It does sound like he's jealous and is taking it out on Bella. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now. We don't live together, but do spend a lot of time together. He knows very well that I have been wanting a dog since I was 4, it's all I ever talked about. Last year when I finally got my dog, the only argument we had was the neuter. He doesn't believe that's beneficial or even necessary, I obviously have a different opinion. He didn't stop me though. He's also the one that brings Kaji wherever we are vegging out watching tv.
My point is, I'm glad I got my little dog because it brought out a nurturing side of my bf that I would have never seen. It's really endearing. If he turned out to be the opposite, then it would have been a deal breaker. 4 years, 10 years, it wouldn't have mattered to me. If he wasn't capable of compassion, he wouldn't be the kind of guy I want for me and out he goes.
Talk to him. With your late night nursing, and a little precious baby at home eating up your attention, I would be a little jealous too. Let him know her potty training isn't forever and she will understand her place in your family, it's just a matter of time, patients, and love. Let him know it bothers you that Bella doesn't have food when you come home. GOOD LUCK!