[Freemerryjane]

My bed is very high and she cant jump up so I have to put her on the bed but she will cry and whine and I put my hands down to lift her up and she backs away. So I pull my hands back closer to me so she will come closer and I can grab her, no way. She looks at my hands (her current favorite chew toy) as if she doesnt know what they are. She also doesnt come to me when I call her and she is outside. She has to be "rounded up". She doesnt get to go outside anymore now. Is she stubborn or dare I say, just stupid? I got so irritated with her backing up and running away that I put her outside the bedroom and shut the door. I have never hurt her in any way so there is no reason to be scared of me. She is my little sweetie and I adore her. Am I doomed to attend pet obedience classes? Im not real social and I dont think I can do that.