Well, she knows if she goes and whines by him, he'll just ignore her, so now she knows to go by me! When she was a puppy I would leave her collar on so I could hear her move around, and if she was moving around that must mean she had to go pee. Well, bf was the one who said, take that collar off so I don't wake up everytime she moves!

She's gotten back in the habit of needing to pee at 4am again.