Awww...I'm sorry that you feel this was something personal. I can assure you that is NOT the case. I have been a member here for years and there are times when I get busy and can't log on for a while. When that happens,
I get the same header on mine! It's not something Admin did to you personally.
I'm not sure what you mean by having to have approval to post something, when others don't have to have it.
I know there are some sections (for sale threads) where you have to be a donating member to post, or some where your dog-for-sale post has to be approved first. There are *some* instances of that, but not many and certainly not aimed at only ONE member.
There are lots of people who read a lot and don't post. Heck there are some people who sign up just to play the arcade games. Don't feel bad or feel a need to explain that.
If all else fails, go to the "testing" section at the bottom and make one post that says "test" or something just to kill the header for a few weeks.
I think maybe you have read too much into it and misunderstood.
