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Originally Posted by katy-yorkie  I say Go For It! I did not meet up with my biological father until I was in my mid 30's. I knew where he lived and he could have known where I lived if he wanted. He had remarried, had two more children and six step-children. I had to make the first step to contact him and let him know I was interested in meeting him and being a part of his life. We had a couple of fun visits but within the next ten years he got sick and passed away. Time was not on our side. You will know with the first conversation/visit if he wants to have a relationship...he probably does. |
Thank you Katy and sorry about your lost. Thank you for sharing your story. I will keep in mind what you mentioned, when i do locate according to what he tells me and how i hear him feel (if its over the phone or in person) is what i will pursue. If i feel that he is not interested then i will respect that 100%.