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Originally Posted by Wylie's Mom  I don't know anything about locating people, but I just wanted to say how much I admire your courage...and I think the journey you're taking is quite incredible. No matter what happens, no matter the outcome - you're "ready to know his side of the story as hurtful as it may be." --> and that's a pretty incredible place to be in life.
What about aunts and uncles...can they help fill in some gaps? |
Thanks for your kind words
. I think after 23 years of not knowing i am in a place where i can accept what ever his story is...my theory that i've created to be able to do this is i already know what he did to my mom..from that i gather that he isn't a "spectacular" person..so i already have him as a bit of a shallow person. What ever he would be willing to tell me will not make it a greater impact because i already know that when i was born he told my mother that if she did not abort me he would not take care of my sister. At this point i am aware that he does not feel anything towards me or my sister. BUT As i was explaining to one of my cousins yesterday its not about "mingling" with him its just about internal satisfaction do to knowing where my other roots are.