I forgot to tell you this story-similar situation to yours. Me and my older brother have different biological fathers. While growing up we both thought we had the same father-which is this amazing man that helped my mom raise the 2 of us. I found out who my real dad was when i was 13 and always knew him, just didn't know he was my real dad but my brother didn't. My brother's real dad is a man my mom was dating for a while, and when she got pregnant he told her get an abortion and she didn't, so he disappeared. When she tried to find out info about him she was told he was killed. All this time she and my brother thought he was dead(my brother is 27 now). My mom always had this guilt that my brother never met his real dad and prayed about it-at least for some answers about him. God works in mysterious ways. A couple months ago when my mom was going to visit my brother upstate she ran into him(my bro's real dad). All this time she thought he was dead!! She called him by his name, in which he responded. She said he looked exactly like he did years ago-just older. Well upon hearing her name he denied it was him and said that he was really his younger son(he had a son already when he met my mom from a previous wife). How could a 70 yr old man lie and say he is really his 45 yr old son?? He said that she must be talking about his 'dad' and that his dad had died years ago. Well it was all a LIE!!! My mom had a feeling it was really my brother's dad but went along with him since he said he was the 'son', so she left him her number and said please call so at least my son can meet you. He never called. He never wanted to be in his life...if he would have he would have reached out. He has 2 other kids and are in their lives completely but never my brother's. My mom did her research and we found him on facebook, as well as pics of his son and daughter, and other sites as well. In fact he even owned restaurants with his wife-so she knew it was him she saw that day. My mom never even told my brother to not hurt his feelings but he can care less...as we both have an amazing dad that has always been there for us-even though he is not our biological father. I just hope that the outcome is good for you and that what you find is positive and isn't like what happened to my brother. Good luck! |