I would try explaining again to your Mother how important it is for you to be able to locate your father should you want to in the future. If she will not help you you could try relatives in Cuba that may have information, a search service. I reunited with my birth son almost 3 years ago. I found out 8 years ago that the adoption agency had a current address for him and reached out in a letter and at that time he was not prepared to meet with us (my husband is is birth father) then about 3 years ago I got a call from the adoption agency and he had sent a letter and pictures to forward ot me with his address and phone number. He was 36 at the time. So you may very well one day want to know his story and you should have the right to do so. I hope you can convince your Mom to help you. |