I have just concluded this search myself. I narrowed it down to Blue Buffalo for us. It believe it contains non of the things above and has real ingredients while leaving out a lot of the bad. I found it today at Petsmart and the price was reasonable. Not sure how it will work for us yet but you might want to add it to the list you research. It came highly recommended by a few YT members who have used it. I haven't heard anything that bad on it but I am sure there are those who have their opinions!
At this point it is the best for us.