I would try to talk to the cleaning lady first. Maybe she can give you some insight into the situation.
My husband is disabled and in a wheel chair most of the time, but he still does chores from time to time.
Maybe taking the trash out and picking up the mail are what she's supposed to do according to doctor's orders.
John's doctor flat out told me to stop doing a few things for him so that he would be motivated to do them for himself.
Maybe that's the situation with the cleaning lady. Could the "cleaning lady" also be a visiting nurse instead of a cleaning lady? (And she may have no idea that you're doing it for her. Hey, maybe you should check with the neighbors on the other side and around her?)
__________________ The fullness of our heart is expressed in our eyes, in our touch, in what we write, in what we say, in the way we walk, the way we receive, the way we need. -Mother Teresa ( RIP Gizmo 3/9/07-8/18/12) 
Last edited by Judy in Waco; 01-15-2010 at 11:23 AM.
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