I agree it is overwhelming at first. A couple of weeks after I brought Lucy home (we already had a dog) I wondered if perhaps she would not be better off in another home. But I decided to give it time and now I could not be separated from her for anything.
I definitely felt that way when we brought our Westie home. I didn't want a Westie - my son did. And he was sooo stubborn and not really loving at first - believe me - many times I questioned that decision.
Ringo and I really didn't bond until we started agility training; truly I don't think we liked each other much.
But, our bond grew, and training got easier . . and all the pieces finally came together. Now, he's my best walking buddy and we keep our bond that way.
I think you should give it some time too. Play with your puppy; don't just focus on the work involved. There's a lot of fun and joy too! |