LULUMOM... you are smart cookie!
I have started to respond in this thread, several times, and stopped myself, not wanting to get tied up in drama...
I have seen many posts, that the questions have made me cringe! However, OFTEN the answer the poster gets makes me cringe more! Not because of inaccuracy, to the contrary, but sometimes delivered with such "sting" that the Op of those thread (sometimes) get defensive, or perhaps don't post when they have other questions. I also cringe when a newbie, pre-faces a post with, "don't get mad but..."
This post is... my opinion!