I understand your opinions on the issues you have mentioned and you are certainly entitled to them, as we all are. What I find ironic about it is that in posting what you have, you yourself have done the same thing that you are admonishing others for.
(An observation that I think Ann actually beat me to.)
What I have found in my years on both this forum, and the other is this: Opinions differ, especially when topics are brought up that people feel so passionately about--a differance of opinions is inevitable. What you or someone else views as "no big deal" or "too late to do anything about" others may feel differently about. Bottom line is, it's the internet, a public forum and we are all different. You can like it or dislike opinions and posting styles as you see fit, but you can't change or control them nor should it be expected that everyone else is going to change their ways to suit others.
(Also, well said Mom to Hot Rod.)