Well, first and most importantly -
hello and blessings in return 
!
I can see you've put your heart as well as a lot of thought into your post...so I've been sitting here a while trying to think of what I want to say...
...and I'm a little bit stumped
.
I appreciate the time you took, and the heart and soul you put into your post.
What stumped me and why I'm struggling to find a way to respond and try to discuss this effectively (or, what I think
might be effective, I should clarify) is this: the content of your post seems to be admonishing a whole lot of YT folks for
being so judgmental...YET...what I'm hearing in your own tone is...pretty much
just judgment...and so...
....I find myself between a rock and a hard place.
