Adding my story to the mix...like everyone else, my two have all their needs met by me from cuddling to feeding to bathing. When hubby isn't home, they are stuck to me like glue!! But when he is home, they want to be right there where he is (Gabby more so than Gage)!! I think the reason Gage wants to be with him is because Gabby is and he's such a jealous little guy.
And although it hurts to see her react differently with your hubby, she does love you
Hang in there!
Suzi