Hi Gennie!
The vet is fantastic when interacting with Becks; the only thing that struck me is that she just said that if we re-introduce him into his crate and make it a safe place again then he will be fine. I am a little confused because even though he is attached to both of us at the hip (follows us everywhere and has to be touching us when sitting on the couch
) he goes to his crate on request when its "bedtime." so weird...but thank you very much for your advice on where to post it and thanks for the welcome!!