Thanks for the advice...you are right, we haven't decided about the whole bed thing. We know we are going to wait til they are more dependable and then go from there. But we were curious about the jumping. Also for the cat...I know things would probably be fine but we just can't bring ourselves to put them together. Our cat is very "tempermentle" to put it nice and she hangs out strictly in our room or the spare room and mainly under the bed. Supervision under the bed is impossible so we are just scared...and lost at what to do....I am sure in time things will work out. It is good to know though that others have had that problem, now we just got to get over ourselves. We also have an issue with not knowing how "rough" they can get with eachother and seem to seperate them at any little roughness. I wish I knew when to let them "play" and when to stop them.
I am so worried about these little guys I can not imagine how I am going to be with a child...haha.