Hello

Mine sleep with us but we waited until they were at least 6 months old before letting them. I worry more about holding "it", more then getting down. If they are old enough to sleep through the night, they will be perfectly happy not leaving your side. Our newest one is 14 weeks old and I put her in bed with us the other morning just for some cuddles before we got up for the day. Bad idea because she had to go---right on my sheets-LOL- Cuddling was worth a load of laundry, with that being said, it will be awhile before she visits us in bed again