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Originally Posted by mizzwanned  lol yea we were going to take a break but then it never happened. He's a great guy overall..just needs to grow up. I'm even more ticked off now because he just called me from his job..he went to pick up his money. He asked if i am mad because he coworker told him that I looked like I didn't even want to help him. Well ya think? Did i want to be there? NO! But I'm not about to just leave him there...but they got him in that mess so I feel like they should have taken the responsibility. But of course they make it seem like because im his gf that's my job! And that i have to be all smiles while helping him??! no. I was worried! I get there and i see him on the floor on his back..shivering. His coworker has the nerve to say that i didn't help him, and that he could have thrown up on himself. I'm so mad because he was like that when i got there and they could have made him sit up or something..and put a sweater on him!! I went and got his coat and put it on him, didn't even know where all his things were. That really pisses me off how ppl turn things around. They get him drunk then can't even take care of him  |
Why not? It would only take 1 time of leaving him there. You didn't put him there and it is not your job to get him outta there. He would respect you more later on for making him take responsibility for himself, and that is to not let himself get in that situation in the first place. It is plain disrespectful for anyone to think it is your job to take care of him. His friends, maybe, but not you.