I ADORED my mother though she has long passed. My father is still here and I absolutely adore him as well. I cannot even fathom feeling the way you feel. It would drive me insane! But also, I cannot imagine having parents like the ones you speak of. I'm sorry for you and your children. How hard that must be for you to have to go thru this especially this time of year. You have to figure its her loss. You can't change the way things are because you have tried. You gave her many opportunities and she has ignored them all. You've done your part. |