Hon, just give her time. She's just a baby and you've had her no time at all. They do chew and bite a bunch when they are puppies. You will just have to teach her she can't bite. As far as cuddling, when she calms down a bit, and especially by the time she is about 6 months old she will be the lap dog you dreamed of. Don't expect too much at a time. It is just like potty training. It takes awhile. It's the same with potty training a child. It takes awhile.