[tmrhkr]

I can see my my moms apartment from my office buidling and I haven't been there in months. My mom and father (aka sperm donor) were married right our of high school and had an awful marriage. My mom even stayed with him after finding out that he had a baby with my babysitters daughter. Yea I know how great is that? I have a sister and a half sister that are two months apart in age. My mom stayed with him because she was a stay at home mom and he was a disabled vet. He was our only source of income. The split about a year after my baby sister was born. My mom remarried several years later to a man who was a mean self centered pig. My sisters and I constanly saw my mother choose him over her own daughters and he was verbally abusive to all of us. I just wanted to see her stand up for us just one time. He has since died and she has remarried to a guy who has completely pi@@ed off her entire family. I have a daughter from my first marriage and have since remarried. I understand what it is like to have "steps" involved but I also know that my daughter will always be my daughter but my husband might not always be my husband. She does come first. (please understand she isn't allowed to be a brat.) But, I would just like to know that my mother put her girls first. My current step father doesn't like my sisters dropping by to visit or her three grand children coming over to do with crafts with their grandmother.

It sounds like we could all write a book.