[tjdmom]

Originally Posted by Mardelin

We all have confidence issues when we start, but we have to learn to control them as what you're feeling transfers down the lead to the dog and affects it's self confidence too. What you're feeling may be affecting her tail. So, walk into that ring like you have the best dog there......Other seasoned handlers will pick up on your lack of self-confidence. Believe, me judges and others are really helpful and considerate to the newbie

You're right it is much different watching than actually getting in the ring. You will learn more as you do get in the ring. In a matter of months, the more and more you are out there, it will all become 2nd nature to you.

I remember as a spectator....I'd watch handlers/owners come out of the ring sweating.....I'd say to myself what can be so difficult about taking a little yorkie around the ring. It's not like you're gaiting a Dobbie, Shepard around the ring. Once I got in the ring myself......I found out about the sweating...these lil guys can give you a real work out.

Remember handling classes are great but, you and your dog will learn more in the ring.

Thank you. I know you are right but needed to hear this!

Originally Posted by topknot

Are you doing the right thing? Yes! I can tell you this from experience. You just have to get out there and try. No one is going to judge. What matters is, to yourself, is knowing that you are trying your best. If you give up - all you have taught yourself is giving up is easy to do. If you want something bad enough, you have to work at it and just try.

But at least you are doing something, you love and are interested in. And making memories with your dogs you love.

And remember.. you do not need to go to handling classes only. You can practice at home. I do and practice at the show as well. The show atmosphere is the best place to learn, since they get use to the smells, sights, and sounds of a real show. Just make it fun for them and you.

Let us know how it goes. And question.... where is your show next month?

You are right. I won't melt from embarrassment and I will look at this as just a fun thing for us! Thank you for your encouragement! My show is in Glens Falls NY!

Originally Posted by maggiesmom_2007

Theresa,
I can tell you from experience. There were plenty of times when i asked myself if it was all worth it, then i looked at Friday and how much she enjoyed being in the ring and I knew that it was. I had some people tell me I would never get her finished because of her coloring but I kept going to shows and although I didn't get her finished in AKC I did with UKC. I know some think that showing UKC is easy, well it may be for some but I worked hard with Friday and I am proud of that accomplishment. What I learned from showing Friday I am putting towards showing Bolt. I can only tell you the same thing you've already been told, Go in the ring like you own the place and Libby will feel that way to. Walk with a purpose and smile. Don't get discouraged if she doesn't win , just tell yourself that you both did good and there is always the next show. Good luck my friend and I hope to see you in the ring.

Thank you!