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Originally Posted by tjdmom  I should probably say it's out the window! I've been to 2 handling classes with Libby and the next 2 weeks they are closed for the holidays but there is a show about an hour away in Jan. I might be able to get one, maybe 2 more handling class in but each time I go, the more I realize I have to learn. I have been to shows as an observer and have watched on tv but actually doing it yourself is so much different! I realize I have A LOT to learn. I was going to enter Libby in a puppy match just for fun. I don't expect to do well... is that a bad attitude to have? She's pretty tiny and also has that habit of carrying her tail down. But I thought more than anything it would be good for me just to get me more used to things. Now I'm starting to feel like I will make a total fool of myself. I'm starting to chicken out! Can anyone give me some good advice here? Am I doing the right thing or should I forget it? |
We all have confidence issues when we start, but we have to learn to control them as what you're feeling transfers down the lead to the dog and affects it's self confidence too. What you're feeling may be affecting her tail. So, walk into that ring like you have the best dog there......Other seasoned handlers will pick up on your lack of self-confidence. Believe, me judges and others are really helpful and considerate to the newbie
You're right it is much different watching than actually getting in the ring. You will learn more as you do get in the ring. In a matter of months, the more and more you are out there, it will all become 2nd nature to you.
I remember as a spectator....I'd watch handlers/owners come out of the ring sweating.....I'd say to myself what can be so difficult about taking a little yorkie around the ring. It's not like you're gaiting a Dobbie, Shepard around the ring. Once I got in the ring myself......I found out about the sweating...these lil guys can give you a real work out.
Remember handling classes are great but, you and your dog will learn more in the ring.