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Originally Posted by danyellm  I think what hurts most is what the kids miss out on.......what should be. |
I know, that was always a sore spot for me. I had very well-behaved, respectful kids who deserved to have good grandparents. I think it honestly bothered me more than it did them. As they got older, my middle son was "adopted" by his best friend's grandparents. They were so wonderful to him and I am eternally grateful for that. My
"boys" are all in their mid to late 20's now and all understand that the grandparents were the ones who missed out. Your kids know they have a mom who loves them - you're miles ahead for that.