The use of the PM system in the forum is great when only wanting input from one member of the forum. It helps to maintain peace if you don't want more than the opinion of one member.
I think sylvan brought up a valid suggestion. I don't think she knew you ONLY wanted advice from SoCal for the reason I stated above.
Just my opinion.
Lisa
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