The other girl thing, if you guys were broken up I don't really see how you can blame him for what he did while you were broke up. If it was just a seperation or some time apart it would be different in my eyes.
I was married and about every month I would get the urge to leave, like things weren't working out and I just told myself it was PMS and I was being cranky. Eventually it got where it was an all the time feeling, so listen to your gut. |