[JeanieK]

Go!!! Follow your gut feeling!!! Yiou cannot find Mr Right while you are holding on to Mr Wrong.

You don't say how old you are, but it sounds like mid 20's at least. At that age people are looking for a mate, not just dating.

if he has not figured out after 3 years that he wants to be with you for life, then he never will.

My daughter was in a simillar relationship. It was on and off for years. He too gave her a ring, to get her to come back to him, but would not set a date. She finally go up nerve enough to leave him for good, and in less than a year she met her husband, they now have two beautiful children.

So move on. There are better things ahead.