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Originally Posted by yorkielover916  Well it looks like I won't be getting my puppy for a long while now... I just found out that my puppy who is 10mos old has kidney problems and the vet isnt sure if he will make it. He got sick on saturday evening and has been sick since then... he is at the vet rt now getting treated and I have to pick him up tonight at 9pm. I do still want the puppy just not right now like I did before. I am sad about my Pete... I cannot be excited about getting a puppy anymore. btw, I had to cut down on some of his treatment b/c my DH didn't want to spend a large amount of money on him. So maybe now you have a small understanding of how he is. this is why when I get my own money that he has nothing to do with I buy the stuff that I want or sometimes need... the camera was an investment so that I could make extra money for our family and it does provide a little income now that i am not working that is what I sometimes count on. but to say that he can tell me what we should spend the money on when he didn't have any involvement in how it was obtained is to me wrong, if he got a large sum of money and wanted to spend it all on his game room I wouldn't have a problem with it. he isn't as much of an animal person as I am so if i could i would have a bird and more dogs.  but I had to throw away the bird idea b/c he doesnt like birds, he doesnt like cats, he would rather have fish... |
Again, financial squabbles can ruin a marriage.
I hope your pup gets better, and I'm sorry that you don't have much money of your own to contribute to the expenses of helping your furbaby get better.
Good luck, and you guys should really talk about this- or see a counsellor.
Seriously.!
I don't know how you've lasted this long being dependant on someone who isn't supportive.