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Originally Posted by Lorrainelola  This thread is getting more and more upsetting. How can the husband justify his 61" tv and stop you getting something you want, and as for the camera, that money was given to you to buy the camera. I would have probably throttled him with the neck strap of it!!!! As I said in a previous post I was bullied and controlled by my 1st husband. It went on for 16years and by the end if he said white was black I would have believed him. The turning point for me was when I was diagnosed with type1 diabetes and didn't get any help or support from him even when I was rushed into hospital. That day I thought if I can cope with this on my own I can cope with anything. Financially things were tight for me when I bought my own place and then my life turned totally around when I met my new husband. We talk about everything and sometimes he gets his way and sometimes I get mine.
well thats my life story for you. You had the accident then the compensation money is yours and he should be man enough to accept that. And it sounds as though he was a bit jealous of when you were given the money for your camera.
I had better get off my soap box now, sorry. x |
Annnnn djust one more thing--- I do not care who has the money. I don't care if you work and your husband doesn't or whatever the situation may be...... if your husband lives in your house with you then he too is going to be affected by you getting the puppy so he needs to be part of this decission. Getting a new puppy is a lot more than the money and jsut paying for it upfront.
It doesn't sound to me like he is jealous that you got money or that he is not being manly--- it sounds to me like he doesn't think that you guys can financially take on another dog right now.
k I'm done now
