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Originally Posted by Cha Cha  You are absolutely right! I commend you for getting out of a bad relationship. I just want to make clear, that I think she should absolutely have the dog if that is what she wants, and I do think her husband is being a selfish control freak. My problem is this. When their selfish little problems escalates, and someone gets angry, it is one thing to put a hole in the middle of a tv. It is completely different to kick the dog. You know the ol's saying, hit 'em where it hurts? And, if they don't work on their relationship what happens when the relationship fails. There will be three dogs that someone will have to decide what to do with then instead of just two. |
I also think that she should have the dog. I for one will never be controlled or told what or what not to do ever again and my new husband knows that. I was totally honest and told him everything that went on in the 1st marriage. Lukcily he is a complete opposite to my 1st husband and I use the term husband loosly because a 'husband' wouldn't do some of the things he did. Life is too short and if getting a loving puppy makes her happy then she should get it. I do her husband doesn't see some of these posts lol.