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Originally Posted by Lorrainelola  This thread is getting more and more upsetting. How can the husband justify his 61" tv and stop you getting something you want, and as for the camera, that money was given to you to buy the camera. I would have probably throttled him with the neck strap of it!!!! As I said in a previous post I was bullied and controlled by my 1st husband. It went on for 16years and by the end if he said white was black I would have believed him. The turning point for me was when I was diagnosed with type1 diabetes and didn't get any help or support from him even when I was rushed into hospital. That day I thought if I can cope with this on my own I can cope with anything. Financially things were tight for me when I bought my own place and then my life turned totally around when I met my new husband. We talk about everything and sometimes he gets his way and sometimes I get mine.
well thats my life story for you. You had the accident then the compensation money is yours and he should be man enough to accept that. And it sounds as though he was a bit jealous of when you were given the money for your camera.
I had better get off my soap box now, sorry. x |
You are absolutely right! I commend you for getting out of a bad relationship. I just want to make clear, that I think she should absolutely have the dog if that is what she wants, and I do think her husband is being a selfish control freak. My problem is this. When their selfish little problems escalates, and someone gets angry, it is one thing to put a hole in the middle of a tv. It is completely different to kick the dog. You know the ol's saying, hit 'em where it hurts? And, if they don't work on their relationship what happens when the relationship fails. There will be three dogs that someone will have to decide what to do with then instead of just two.