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Originally Posted by DerbyLayne  But marriage is about Sacrifice, compromise, Give and Take etc etc.
You don't always get what you want, and it goes both ways.
It's not like I've never pouted and cried and felt things were unfair, but in the BIGGER PICTURE- People do get what they want eventually (normally)... because no one wants anyone to be unhappy! but you both have to be on the same page or Ya, I find it disrespectful to the man, or the woman not to want to WORK TOGETHER.
There are woman on here saying "I asked for an entire year" or two! some others have said it took over 20 years! but eventually they got what they wanted right? Maybe it's not the right time... Maybe it's a money issue, maybe wants to warm up to the lifestyle change etc... you don't know, and neither do I.
But for a lot of people here to say "Just show up with a puppy!" I don't think that's right. |
But he told her to get one. Only she knows what their relationship is like, so dopnly she can make the decisioln.
I am saying if it were me and I hd it to do over, I would get the dog, cause the relationship with the dog would have been better than the relationship with the man. If I had stood up for myself the marriage might have lasted.
Or maybe it would not have made any difference.