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Originally Posted by Lorrainelola  Yes a decision they should make together, but saying that it is disrespectful to him as her husband is the part that gets me. We all have our own opinions and at the end of the day if she wants the dog and her husband wont budge then one of them is going to be unhappy. |
But marriage is about Sacrifice, compromise, Give and Take etc etc.
You don't always get what you want, and it goes both ways.
It's not like I've never pouted and cried and felt things were unfair, but in the BIGGER PICTURE- People do get what they want eventually (normally)... because no one wants anyone to be unhappy! but you both have to be on the same page or Ya, I find it disrespectful to the man, or the woman not to want to WORK TOGETHER.
There are woman on here saying "I asked for an entire year" or two! some others have said it took over 20 years! but eventually they got what they wanted right? Maybe it's not the right time... Maybe it's a money issue, maybe wants to warm up to the lifestyle change etc... you don't know, and neither do I.
But for a lot of people here to say "Just show up with a puppy!" I don't think that's right.