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Originally Posted by TammyJM So they are held to lesser moral standards because they don't have a ring on their finger???  I THINK NOT!! It does not matter who took the vows...wrong is wrong and those women are JUST as responsible as Tiger, PERIOD....no free passes just because Tiger was the married one. |
Tiger was the one who vowed to be faithful to Elin. Not these other women. In fact, at least one of them did not even know Tiger was married when their affair began!
Don't blame the women. Yes, I think they are bimbos, and having an affair with a married man is a DEAD END and nothing good can come of it. But in the end,
the blame lies with Tiger. He is not some wild animal who cannot control his physical urges and who acts on instinct alone. He is an adult who is made a concious choice to deceive and dishonor his wife.
I have repeatedly said that if my husband had an affair, I would not be angry at the other woman. But I would be furious with my husband. I still feel that way.