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Originally Posted by hartygirl  Look, I'm sorry but if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all. You don't know the whole story and were not there to witness any of this first hand.
The OP has already asked you to stop commenting on here so why not just leave it at that?
Every situation is different, I know you offered a story about having your dog put down because you chose not to have a surgery preformed, but that is very different from this woman giving up her dog to do everything possible to save its life. She made rash, hasty decisions to keep her dog alive, she gave up rights to the dog, she did not give up on her. Now she wants to have her back and there is always hope, unless the dog dies she can try forever to get her baby back. I know I would. Maybe finances are not an issue anymore, whatever the case this womans heart is hurting and she wants to know her baby is OK. I believe she deserves to know. |
I have not said anything unkind to her. I still feel very bad for her, but she made the decision to give it up. If she now has the money then go down there with a check.
But what she is asking people here to do is not the way to do it. Go there in person and ask to see the vet. Make and appointment if you have to. Bad mouthing them on the internet is not the right way to do it.
I believe she deserves to know too, but this is not the way to go about it.
I have compassion for her but there is a right way and awrong way to do something.
I'm happy to see she is finally getting a level head about it and making an appointment to meet with the vet. Hopefully he can make some arrangements to get the dog back. and that she does not find herself back in the same position in the future.