Totally understand where you are coming from... I get a little peeved when people get dogs just because they are cute... when people get a cute puppy.. they have to remember that they are going to grow up to be chewing dogs that might get into some of your stuff and can be a pain in the butt... they require feeding, taking out to go potty, playing, toys, doctors visits and all that good stuff just like a child... BUT there are some people that are just too immature to even take care of one dog let alone multiple AND children... im a firm believer that people should be given a test before they get a puppy OR before they have a baby...
At the same time... what you say to her, is she even going to listen, is any of it even going to sink in? probably not.. but at least now you know that you dont need a friend like that.. and the friends that are mutual and are giving her sympathy.. thats exactly what she wants... they will realize this and it will probably be too late... |