im so sorry for your loss but just because you cant see him dose not mean that you cant say good bye my aunt was killed in a car accident about 5 years ago she was like a second mother to me my grandfather had her cremated before we could get down to clam the body he said he did it just so my grandmother could not "have her way"and have her buried in ohio so the family up hear got together and sat down with pictures and told stories and then at the end of the evening we sat outside and all said goodbye in a way we felt gave us closer maybe you could do something simeler with your son
__________________ Don't say I love you unless you mean it, but if you do say it a lot. People forget.  |